This is the result you will get if you Google compatibility (of two things): ability to exist or occur together without problems or conflict. Can we accept this definition in all its entirety? The truth is two people who are dating are from completely different worlds. So, being compatible may be a cliché. Regardless, there must be something that connects both of you. There is no need to have a headache. If you want to know if you are compatible with your bae, we share some of the things you should look out for. As a caveat, this does not mean you should quit your relationship:
You don’t question your love life
You are convinced that you love your partner, and you know they love you. There is no iota of doubt. You are secure and happy in your relationship and you rarely question your partner’s love.
You know things about each other, others do not
You know every detail of each other’s life including the most embarrassing and intimate. You barely hide anything from each other. In addition, you don’t hesitate to inform your partner about the things that happen to you.
You both respect your individuality
Both of you have it at the back of your mind that you had an individual life before coming together to date. And of course, you respect this and you don’t want to try to change them. Sure, they may dress in a way you don’t like, but you still love them. It means you are on the same page. However, if you want to change your partner’s personality or appearance, it may mean you and your partner aren’t compatible.
You share similar interests
Although it is important to have your interests; compatible lovers make sure that they spend quality time together doing things they like. Expectedly, you do not grumble or have reservations about performing particular fun activities together.
You fight with each other
Fighting in a relationship is good. However, when you fight almost every day, one of you will get tired and throw in the towel. Regardless, fighting is like a road both of you have to walk to understand each other. Importantly, ensure that you resolve it ASAP.
You can both imagine a future together
You have been together for months or years and you have already defined your relationship. As a result, you cannot imagine a future without each other. You both aspire to get married and have children. This mainly applies to people in long-term relationships. However, if your partner doesn’t want to talk about a future together, it might be that you have different expectations from the relationship. So, ensure that your expectations align.
You are attracted to each other
Know that sex is not the only way to be attracted to your lover. Physical intimacy with your partner is important. This includes holding hands to kissing and other forms of Public Display of Affection. This means the spark is still there!